Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life. Show all posts

Friday, March 11, 2016

Conversations While Being Chased by a Dragon

Trying something new again. Often these types of post fall into obscurity after a few weeks, but we’ll see.

I got this idea from another blog I saw, and I liked it. So here’s the attempt with my own spin.

What I’d tell you if…

…I were being chased by a fire-breathing dragon through a dark cave on an unknown planet surrounded by active volcanoes and heroic music which invariably meant I would survive because the hero(ine) always survives.

~It’s hot in here!

~I’m giving a presentation tomorrow on preparing to publish, and I’m really excited about it. Recap next week!

~Talking helps! (And sometimes talking while being chased by a fire-breathing dragon is the best time.)

~You can’t be unhappy when you’re grateful. (And I’m even grateful for the dragon because it means I’m alive and kicking.)

~When I get out of this cave (since I know I will due to the previously mentioned music), I will resume being all I can be and more.

*dodges ball of flame*

Monday, July 20, 2015

Please Don't Offend My work ethic. Or, One Indie Author's take on a Blogger's Review Policy

“You must stay drunk on writing so reality cannot destroy you.” – Ray Bradbury

This past week, I’ve put a lot of time into seeking out potential reviewers for my second book, One Fling to Rule Them All, (which can be purchased by clicking on the blue linked text of the title, just sayin. ). It’s a long and kind of tedious process that goes something like this.

Step 1: Find a long-ish list of book blogs
Step 2 – Go through the blogs on the list individually, paying special attention to their review policy and any other pertinent information (Some do not have a review policy, which is fine. Others do not have easily found guidelines, but that’s a post for another time.)
Step 3 – Determine if each blog a). reviews your genre, and b). would be a good fit by looking at a few reviews
Step 4 – If the blog is a good fit, locate contact information (again, sometimes more easily found than others) and drop blogger a line in preferred method
Step 5 – Wait.

I know. Fun, right? Lately, my days have looked something like this.

Step 1 – Wake up and proceed with morning activities (eat, get dressed, practice personal hygiene, etc.)
Step 2 – Use the late morning and early afternoon to hunt down and (when possible) email bloggers
Step 3 – Have some form of lunch
Step 4 – Write at least a thousand words to keep the writing monster happy
Step 5 – Do any other miscellaneous things that need doing (i.e. Laundry, errands, cleaning, etc.)
Step 6 – Eat some form of dinner
Step 7 – Possibly go back to the blogger hunt
Step 8 – Sleep so this can be repeated the following day

MEEP!

Despite how this list looks, I actually don’t mind the process. Asking bloggers to review my book gives me a sense of doing. I’m accomplishing something small every time my email comes back with “your message has been sent.” The waiting is less fun, but let me tell you. Any irritation caused is instantly made better by the receipt of an email that says something like “Your book looks awesome. I’d love to review it.” That’s every writer’s dream right there. Well, one of our dreams.

However, with the good comes the bad. Most review bloggers say similar things in their policy—I cannot accept every book; I may not finish every book I do accept; my reviews are honest; I may post negative reviews—that’s fine. Authors understand that not everyone will love everything they read. (At least, authors should understand this.) We prepare for one star reviews. It’s part of life.

What shouldn’t be part of life, however, is unnecessary rudeness. I’ve seen cases over the years of authors flipping tables because of bad reviews. That’s not okay. Neither okay, though, is the idea that a review policy can insult writers. Without saying names, I came across a review policy that said something like “I refuse to read self-published books because I like good writing.”

Ouch.

K, back up the wagon. Yes, self-publishing has given everyone (and I mean everyone) the opportunity to publish a book. Yes, many self-published authors do not take the time to get their books beta read, proof read, edited, provided cover art, or any of the other little things that make a book good. And yes, bloggers certainly have the right to not accept Indie authors. It’s the same right that allows them to not accept science fiction or mystery—they don’t want to.

But book bloggers, it is not (repeat NOT) okay to insult the entire Indie author population because you’ve read a few badly done Indie books. There is an entire community out there of self-published authors who know what they are doing and produce products that are written and packaged as well than traditionally published books. There are Indie writers who take just as much time learning the craft of writing than traditionally published authors. There are freelance editors out there who are just as good than editors who work at major publishing houses. There are cover artists, layout artists, publicists, translators—you name it, the Indie world’s got it—that do just as well as the people working in big companies. If you don’t want to read Indie books, fine. But do not, for a moment, presume to insult the Indie authors who work because a few choose not to.

Thank you,
An Indie author who puts effort and time into her books
Deanna Dee

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Monday, June 29, 2015

The Adventures of Deanna and BBFFFF: Episode 2

The Adventures of Deanna and BBFFFF

Geek and Friend having Life Happen to Us

Episode 2: Ferrule

Last week at trivia, Trivia Guy had a round of questions that dealt with uncommon words. BBFFFF and I failed at coming up with the correct answers for most of these, but I learned some new words. So I’m not complaining too much.

One of the questions was “a ferrule is a small metal tube that holds together what common handheld item?” We had no idea, so we left it blank. After leaving most of the rest of the answers blank (or filling them in with nonsense responses), Trivia Guy collected our sheet. At this point, he noticed that BBFFFF was not using the pen he’d loaned her.

Trivia Guy: Does that pen not work?

BBFFFF: (tossing down the pen I loaned her upon the discovery that Trivia Guy’s pen did not work) No.

Trivia guy then took our sheet and walked away.

Me: (after short pause) Oh, crap.

BBFFFF: What?

Me: (lamely) I wonder if that common handheld item is a pen.

BBFFFF and I were silent (a rare occasion) for a moment and then cracked up at our own foolishness (a common occurrence).

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Other noteworthy things that happened last week

Prior to trivia, I informed BBFFFF that I needed newspaper for wrapping things and that Co-Cap had told me that I could snag some free newspaper type things wherever free newspaper type things are the free equivalent of sold. BBFFFF said we could go to a store that shall remain nameless to protect the innocent/guilty. We went to the place that shall not be named, and I proceeded to make the expensive investment of 80 cents.

BBFFFF grabbed a rather large pile of the place-that-shall-not-be-named’s advertising fliers. She then ran out of the store very quickly as, most likely, not to be seen by store employees who might be wondering why she was making off with their advertising fliers. In her defense, the fliers are free.

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On my recent Disney trip, I got my finger caught in a door. It was a pretty severe moment, and the effects are still noticeable. Looking at it this past week, Co-Cap remarked that it was possible I’d lose my nail. When I showed it to BBFFFF on Friday, she came to a similar conclusion. I was initially very upset about this potential eventuality. However, I have since gotten over it and adopted the following mindset.

“If my fingernail falls off, we can have a birthday party for the new one when it grows in.”

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A ferrule is used in pencils. Want more information? Check out this Wikipedia article.
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Please join me next week for the next episode of…The Adventures of Deanna and BBFFFF.

BBFFFFF = Best B*tch Friend for Life…because BFF doesn’t make a fun noise when you say it.

Geek on,
Deanna

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